October 23, 2017

12 NEGATIVE Thoughts That Are Holding You Back

534091_10151371574735984_1136144810_n-e1355950290748“If we can’t change our thinking…we can’t change ANYTHING!”

1. There is so much that could go wrong.

Yes there is, but stop being afraid of all that COULD go wrong and start thinking about all that COULD go right! You should always look at what you have now and be thankful for it!!

2. I care what people think of me.

Stop worrying about what others think of you, ignore the rude people who talk about you, why give them that power over you! True strength comes from being wise enough to walk away with your head held high!

3. It will NEVER get better.

Are you serious? Start realizing that it takes baby steps, basically one day at a time. Some days it might be one moment at a time. Start appreciating every great moment that happens and don’t dwell on the speed bumps of life!

4. I can’t trust anyone.

Do you know that most of our true strengths come from the hurts and sufferings we have experienced? We often tend to close our hearts off because it’s not that we don’t trust others, it’s that we don’t trust ourselves enough to believe we can survive another pain.

200131_541886139172168_64377438_n5. My past is distinctive of my future.

Says who…you? So change it, only you can! All mistakes are a part of our growth process; they make our valuable experiences just that much more rewarding! Being defeated is only a temporary condition, it’s giving up that makes it permanent!

6. I will NEVER forgive you.

Guess what, you need to forgive them! Harboring unforgiveness is only hurting you! Look at this way; you should be thanking them for making you strong through the process!

7. I don’t have time to dream.

Want to know what’s worse…having no dream to go after! Remember you don’t have to see the whole staircase; you just have to take the first step! DREAM and DREAM BIG!!!

8. I’ll do what makes me happy…someday.

Forget someday…DO IT NOW! Today is the oldest you have ever been and also the youngest you will ever be, so how can it NOT be the perfect time to pursue your dreams and be happy doing it!

9. I am too unhappy to make anyone else happy.

Did you know that happiness is like a boomerang, just as smiles are too! Usually I find myself happiest when I am doing something that will make someone else happy, no strings attached. Then when you see them smile, it’s hard not to smile back!

10. I can’t. It’s too late. I’m not good enough.

Our attitude is what ultimately determines our journey. Never put condemning words against yourself. There is no can’t, it’s never too late, and exactly what are you not good enough for? Stop putting limitations on yourself!

11. I don’t like them because they’re broken.

Aren’t we all, in some way or another. Remember don’t assume someone is broken because of one moment in their life. Instead be the one who build them up, nurture them with understanding, have a caring heart, and look for the best in them. Leave them feeling a little stronger than before you got there!

12. Everyone else is doing it, so it must be right.

WRONG! Live your OWN life! Don’t hide who you are behind who someone else is. Stand up for what you believe in and never change who you are to FIT into anyone else’s world!

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On the outside I am full of tats and it's hard to find me NOT smiling.... But on the inside, it's ALL titanium, from 3 severe car accidents that should have taken my life (1993, 2000 & 2008)! I am a living & breathing testimony of God's great mercy here on Earth!! And I'm ready to show this world that NO ONE on this Earth can hold me back from living out what God has in store for me!!!

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